Hello,
My human being!
Last week, I shared:“I Closed My Paris Wine Boutique, and It Changed Everything I Know About Building a Business.”
It was about letting go. About endings that don’t feel like success… until they quietly are.The kind of endings that feel uncomfortable, but necessary. The kind that teach discernment.
Today, I want to talk about the other side of that story:the trying. Again. And again. And again.
This morning, at breakfast, something very simple happened.I finally nailed the perfect poached egg.
Soft whites.Golden, flowing center.No vinegar taste.No stress.
Resting gently on avocado toast, balanced, intentional, precise.
What most people don’t see is that it took over 24 eggs, across an entire week, to get there. Different water temperatures. Different timings. Different techniques. Tiny adjustments. Failures that looked ridiculous for something so “simple.”
And that’s when it hit me.
This is exactly how building anything meaningful works.
From businesses, to personal growth, to confidence, to clarity. Mastery is rarely elegant at the beginning. It’s messy. Repetitive. Quiet. Often unseen.
And then came the pairing.
Pairing eggs with wine is notoriously difficult. Eggs dominate the palate. They flatten aromatics. They overwhelm delicacy if you’re not careful.
That’s why, for this plate, I would always suggest a sparkling, preferably Champagne, of course! Its natural creaminess supports the silkiness of the egg, while its acidity keeps the palate alive. The bubbles lift rather than compete. The eggs don’t overpower the wine, and the wine doesn’t fight the food.
And honestly… why not Champagne at breakfast?It’s not a sin.Sometimes, it’s simply the best choice.
And that’s the point.
Wine teaches us what business often forgets: everything is a choice.If your criteria are clear, balance, intention, respect for structure, the rest finds its place.
We don’t fail because we’re incapable.We fail because we stop one attempt before the breakthrough.
The world celebrates the finished plate, not the wasted eggs.The polished brand, not the wrong pairings.The overnight success, not the years of refinement.
But the eggs are the work.The trying is the work.
Selling is life.Selling ideas. Selling taste. Selling timing. Selling trust.
So if today feels imperfect, unfinished, or chaotic. Trust this: consistency is not stubbornness. It’s devotion to your future self.
Nothing clicks the first time.But everything changes the moment it does.
Keep trying.Choose with intention.
Santé for life, even when it’s messy. 🍾🍳✨
Love, Solé Lynds
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